You know what’s really dumb? Not fitting in with the gender you’re assigned at birth, because it doesn’t feel right to be called that pronoun. When you try the opposite, it doesn’t either, and you maybe think something’s wrong with you. You try going by the other for a while, because maybe you just aren’t used to it yet, and a couple ears later it still doesn’t feel right. Then you find out, there are things like agender, and it fits? Being called they feels so much better, but people can’t accept that, because they don’t see gender as a scale, just one or the other. I’m sorry, but gender is not just boy or girl, and thinking otherwise is dumb, honey oats.